One time when I was in Phoenix I was having a very Dionysian evening. I was an 18 year old kid far from home and thought I would say yes to life. Everything was new to me, from the 12 feet tall cacti, millions of people, to the 70 degree winters and 115 degree summers, might as well keep trying new things. I was at a foam-party rave and was set on trying some ecstasy. I had decided this beforehand after I had researched it on erowid.org and liked the sound of it; after all I was a scientist of consciousness doing research not some hedonistic schmuck (or so I told myself). That night I really did feel like I needed it because I was being a party-pooper. I couldn’t get into it and was self-conscious and insecure. That was a common thing for me then, but it seemed especially so that night. I hung out in the corner looking sketchy and talking to other sketchy looking people. Eventually I found a guy who was selling and I bought a pill for $10, originally $15 but I only had $10. He let it go for cheaper because I agreed to help him sell it. I , unintentionally (thankfully) lost him after a couple minutes and then popped the pill in my mouth. After about 40 minutes without feeling anything, I was wondering if the guy sold me an aspirin or something.
Then it hit me. It was like a tidal wave of euphoria that instantly set me grinning ear to ear. I danced with foolish abandon in the chest deep foam, no insecurity or reservations. I hugged and high-fived strangers. I was in love with everyone and everyone was in love with me “This can’t be wrong,” I thought to myself. Earlier I would not dare ask someone to dance, but now I was asking everyone in sight, indifferent whether they said yes or no. When I was dancing with one girl, acting like I knew what I was doing, I thought to myself “Is this really happening?” It was a blur of bliss pierced by faint remembrances of strangers faces and strobe lights. I left the rave at about 2 A.M. to bike back the light rail, so I wouldn’t have to bike 15 miles back home. As I pedaled through the warm spring air, I felt a bit depressed. It all seemed so fake; none of those people cared about me, the happiness was meaningless, and it does nothing to actually solve life’s problems, mine or others. Of course, I felt guilty too, because there I was, a serious Christian high on ecstasy — burnt out on religion and needing real joy. I caught the light rail in time and talked to this guy who was stoned and drunk. He told me I reminded him of myself, being on ecstasy. He was very interested in how it was effecting me. He checked out my pupils, put his hand in my armpit to feel my sweat, and put his finger through my tank-top to feel my nipple. It sounds really weird now, but I didn’t give it a second thought at the time. He wasn’t a pervert or anything. I went back home and pondered my experiences (and enlarged pupils).
From that time forth, I was in love with ecstasy, though I never did it again. I wanted to do it several times and I daydreamed about it like a high school sweetheart. I thought of taking it, making it, and selling it. I forced myself not to, and it helped that I had to bike anywhere from 8 to 20 miles to get to raves, my conscience could not hold out that long on the way there. It was also helpful that I was in a church that was very active about interacting with each other. That saved me. My faith was not very victorious at that point in my life, it just kept me from falling into an abyss.
I did, however, go to one rave after that and did fine without drugs. Interestingly enough it was a heaven themed rave and there was a guy dressed up like Jesus walking around. It was a sketchy warehouse in an industrial neighborhood in Phoenix full of weirdos with furry boots, angel wings, speedos, whatever you can think of, just my style (later the cops tried to shut it down — gah I miss the Phoenix rave scene and lovely Phoenix in general). Basically I went bonkers that night with little inhibitions and without taking any drugs. Some guy even tried to give me a beer because apparently I “look like I suck at life”. I was just like, “whatever, bro, I’m great at life.” The one girl I got the balls to ask to dance turned me down because she had a boyfriend. Nothing bothered me that night. I was vibing so hard that the next morning at my sign spinning job I was dancing on top of a power box to some hardstyle while spinning my real estate sign!I don’t know why I felt so free that night; I hadn’t experienced any spiritual or existential breakthrough really. It would be about another two years before I would have real spiritual breakthrough (the night now makes sense in retrospect — moar on that later).
After I finished my schooling in Phoenix (8 months or so at an audio engineering trade school), I moved to Los Angeles to do an internship at a post production facility. Los Angeles was a culture shock for me, I had been there before, but living there is a whole other thing. I drove down from Montana and when I actually got into the city I had to navigate 5 lane traffic and take a bajillion exits to get where I was going. The racial and ethnic diversity was astounding too; in Montana I grew up with whites and Indians, mostly whites though. In Phoenix I had seen plenty blacks and Mexicans. In LA I saw blacks, Mexicans, Arabs, East Asians, etc. I lived in Torrance, which is 90 percent Asian. My church was a Japanese church, so I mostly hung out with Asian people and the few black people that went to my church. I especially hung out a lot with the black guys. For 3 months I commuted 2 hours through downtown LA to North Hollywood. It was a bit crazy, but I got used to it. My internship was mostly running errands, cleaning, taking notes, and sitting around the studio eating their food. I did see a couple famous people though: I got Jeff Dunham his coffee (not starstruck because I don’t like his stuff) and the coolest was getting to sit in on a voice recording session for Scoobie Doo, though the voice of Scoobie and Velma were the only original voice actors. Unfortunately I didn’t rave at all in LA, but I needed to get my head on straight. The one rave I thought about going to, gave me tempting thoughts of taking E again. I regret missing Bassnectar though. I soon learned the Hollywood is not really my scene so I back to Helena, Montana.
It was now 2012, I was working night shifts at a TV station reading a lot and not doing much else. One of the books I picked up during this time was The Portable Nietzsche. Now, I don’t agree with Nietzsche’s major premises, but I do find him endlessly interesting and a kindred spirit. You may be wondering what on earth Nietzsche has to do with this, but it will make sense, just hang with me. I am by no means a Nietzshean scholar, but I have a feel for the major themes of his work and I will briefly touch on his ideas that are relevant to interpreting my experiences.
Nietzsche thought of Christianity as the religion of “no”. He conceived of it as the denial of all vital human desires and energies. Essentially he viewed it as the sublimation of slavish weakness in hopes of making the vital, powerful man equal with the weak, ignorant man by means of curbing the vital man’s life force with morality. He conceived of a religion or philosophy rather, inspired by the god Dionysus (hence the reference at the beginning). For Nietzsche, Dionysus symbolized a “yes” attitude towards life, a life affirming perspective that didn’t curb the vital man’s impulses and desires. He thought of this as a “gay science”, or a happy philosophy as opposed to the denial of life by Christianity. During my time in Phoenix, my spiritual life was not a gay science, but a stoic drudgery full of guilt, shame, and depression. It was a religion of no. I was saying no to life, not only the bad but the good many times, throwing the baby out with the bathwater. I’m probably the type of person that convinced Nietzsche that Christianity is lame; I was burnt out on this boring religiousness and something in me was dying to engage with life, to dance with life — which led to me taking MDMA. While my career with drugs was short lived (I tried a few others), I still was not having the fulfillment I needed. However, I would soon experience the abundant life that Jesus talked about.
My cousin told me about the crazy things he had been seeing in his life and recommended that I check out YWAM (youth with a mission). So I got two weeks off of work and flew down to LA for a two week school called Circuit Riders. It was all about worshiping God and spreading His love and word. At first, I felt like a fish out of water. A bookish, introvert amid wild-eyed, shouting weirdos. I resented it when they tried to make me like that. I saw myself as a serious Christian but not some weird enthusiast. It was really awkward when we did preaching circles. Basically we circled up and were supposed to preach excitedly to the group. I mumbled weakly with my hands in my pockets, but they were supportive enough. I got less and less resistant as the program went on though. One day we were to partner up and pray through a bunch of stuff: depression, shame, unbelief, unforgiveness etc. It’s called repentance, but I think of it as spiritual detox. Anyways we did that and it was cool but I didn’t feel some crazy moment or anything.
Next we did an outreach in Burbank. I was timid and cynical about that too. As my partners talked excitedly to people about God, I inwardly cringed and thought about how they were probably scaring people off. I talked to a couple of people and it was okay, but nothing crazy and a bit awkward. I got over myself though when I saw that some of the guys had led several people to Christ and multiple people had been healed of injuries (maybe I’m the weirdo). My partners prayed for me to be baptized with the Holy Spirit, for those of you not fluent in Christianese that basically means to be filled and empowered with the Spirit of God. Again, nothing crazy happened but I accepted it by faith. My resistance was starting to soften. During our free day my roommate and I decided to do what is called a Treasure Hunt. Basically, it’s like Where’s Waldo in real life. You pray for people to find, and then you go out and find them and pray for them or talk to them or whatever. Without giving an extensive account, that day was one of the funnest days of my life. We found all the people we were supposed to find, I couldn’t deny it. The spiritual detox, the infilling of the spirit, and stepping out in faith paid off. I walked around Burbank that day like I was rolling hard. Ear to ear grin most of the day and lots of confidence. I felt ecstasy, not MDMA, real ecstasy. When I got back to the YWAM base I was still flying. I was just going around grinning telling people how I’d been set free from guilt, shame, and fear. For once, God felt really real. I laid in bed that night for hours thinking, “I can’t believe this is really real.”
If you haven’t caught the parallel between the experiences it is this: Christianity is the ultimate life affirming way of life. It is not about rules, regulations, and saying no to life and fun stuff. Sin is a killjoy. MDMA and other “fun” stuff would have kept me from really entering into life — distracting me from the true, eternal, transcendent joy. Unlike MDMA, when I was rolling with God I could say “this is really real and this is doing something to solve my problems and the world’s problems.” So I don’t say no to sin because Christianity is about ruining peoples’ fun like Nietzsche thought, I say no because it’s about maximizing peoples’ fun (not just in the moment but for the long run). I won’t lie and say I feel like I’m rolling balls all day every day. I have bad days; I’m human and sometimes I lose sight of spiritual things and get in a rut. Nonetheless, my life has totally changed. I have so much more joy and well-being and God has put me on my path as well. I now go to raves again without being tempted by drugs; I dance out of spiritual joy, enjoy the music, lights, interesting people, and when people ask me for drugs I point them to the one who can give them real joy (some people let me pray for them!). I think that the heaven themed rave I went to was very symbolic: Heaven is a party, love is the drug, and Jesus raves, hard.
I leave you with this gem of stoner theology : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2O50k6U-0k Toke the Ghost, my friends.
A paper I wrote about raving and spirituality: https://pilgrimsmap.wordpress.com/2013/06/15/the-rave-and-the-promised-land/